How to Become a Good Mother in Modern Society?

Being a mother is the most marvelous miracle in the world. However, it is not simple to become a good mother and you are required to learn many skills.

You still remember vividly that day when you knew you were pregnant. You were happy and thrilling to await your angel to be born. But since then, you have realized that your life has been turned upside down. When your children were fussy, you did not know whether you should soothe or hit them. When your kids did the right things, you did not know how to encourage in the proper way to avoid making them arrogant. You sometimes wondered why your children were disobedient and stubborn. Even you did not know how to help your kids sleep well or protect them from dangers.

We are living in an increasingly modern and developed society. New mothers now have more opportunities to get access to multiple sources of information on newspapers or on the internet about parenting. However, a lot of mothers are still confused and worried when their accumulated knowledge is not completely effective. Here are main causes.

Firstly, your accumulated knowledge has not been summarized scientifically and systematically. You get too many sources of information and lack selectivity. There are so many rules, tips and methods of parenting that you need to spend a lot of time researching and selecting the best way for your kids. Certainly, you cannot keep all things in mind. Thus, if you want to avoid being worried and embarrassed when they put those rules and methods into practice, you should have a book hand to write down all the most effective methods categorized with each topic and period under your own understanding.

Secondly, the applied methods are entirely inconsistent with the age-related changes in physiological system of your babies. Remember that each child has a different process of physiological development. As a result, all rules of parenting should be applied in a flexible way.

The last reason is that you are not advised by experts in the fields of psychological health care for children. This service has not been popular in some developing countries in Asia, including Vietnam. The babies are just taken to the hospital when they are seriously ill. However, your children need to be taken a regular health examination by the dietitians to ensure the children's physical development. Moreover, with each change in the process of physiological development, you should be counseled by the physiologists. They will advise and give you the right advice in matters of child care.

Parenting is a challenging and stressful journey. But this journey is also full of happiness, love and smile. Someone said that "There will be so many times you feel like you've failed. But in the eyes, heart, and mind of your child, you are Super Mom." Your children are the reason you laugh, smile and want to get up every morning.

Experiencing a treasure of good books on the theme of parenting "How to talk so kids listen", or you can see my blog Tips for raising children

To save your money and time, go shopping online with more promotional programs and sales-off products. View Today's Deals and  Best Sellers on

Post A Comment
  • Blogger Comment using Blogger
  • Facebook Comment using Facebook
  • Disqus Comment using Disqus

No comments :